Dishing the Dirt, On Simplicity Style
Okay, I write about simplicity every day, but what’s the real story? I always wonder what goes on behind the scenes at other blogs, so I thought I’d shed a little light on what my life is really like.
What got you started on your simplicity kick?
To be honest, I’m not truly sure. I think I wanted to be able to scale back without worrying about keeping up a consumer lifestyle. Also, I think being in a house (instead of an apartment that was temporary for me) made me want to take control of my surroundings. There were lots of things that contributed, among them: frugality, style, laziness, and maturity. As I grow up, I need fewer things to define myself.
Do you follow all your own advice?
I’d say I’ve got an 80 percent follow-through rate. I do pretty much all the things I recommend, just not all of the time.
Have you always enjoyed simplicity?
Nope. I used to collect everything, from vintage Barbies to Elvis albums. Collections can be important, since they help us define our personalities in a tangible way. But I’m just not in that kind of mode right now.
What’s the most satisfying part of simplifying?
The feeling that I don’t need much to get by. No matter what happens in life, I know that I’ll be okay because my priorities are in order, with “stuff” at the bottom of the list.
Is your home fabulous?
Nope. But it’s not bad. I learned how to pick wall colors the hard way, and the home is still recovering. (P.S. Neon blue is not meant for walls. Trust me.)
What clutter are you still clinging to?
Books. I’ve gotten much better (I used to be a flat-out book hoarder), but I still have a lot around that were good, but not great. For me, getting rid of books is a process. I can take out one here and one there, but doing a massive dump would be painful.
What’s the messiest part of your home?
Probably the laundry room. I leave stuff hanging in there all the time and never clean the corners. Is it wrong that the room dedicated cleaning is the messiest?
What’s the single most important step a person can take toward simplicity?
Realizing that your stuff doesn’t define you. You won’t forget who you are or what you like just because you get rid of things. Also, it’s important to know deep down inside that you don’t need to impress people with material things. The people you actually want in your life don’t really care about that, they care about how you treat them.
Tell me more about Roo.
He’s about two and a half years old, and we have no idea what he is. (Our best guess is Lab-Vizsla mix. That’s what everyone at the vet office thinks.) We adopted Roo from the local Humane Society after seeing his mug on their website. Fittingly enough for a tightwad, he was a bargain at $30, including crate, bed, and toys!
If there’s ever anything else you want to know, just ask. I’m pretty open about my life. I’m by no means perfect (or anything resembling it), but that’s perfectly fine with me.






This post has 11 comments
June 5th, 2008
I like this! I have been toying with the idea of letting my readers ask me about myself but maybe I should just share without them asking LOL!
We have two dogs that we adopted from the Humane Society also. They were a bit pricier - I think one was $60 and the other $80. Maddy is 11 and Harry is 9. Wow, how time flies. They were so cute as puppies and are just loud mess makers now. Kinda like kids!!!
Thanks for giving us more of a glimpse into your life!
June 5th, 2008
Neon blue walls? What were you thinking
? I haven’t graduated to a dog yet, all I have is a fish (aptly named “Blogosphere”, I got him recently). If you follow what you write in this blog 80% of the time, I think you’re doing really well. It sounds like you have a great life!
June 5th, 2008
A great idea for a post. I’ll have to give it some thought and do something similar. Thanks for sharing!
June 5th, 2008
I do try to live simple myself…there is just less to worry about, maintain and take care of. I’m going to go purge some stuff this weekend. I just hate clutter. Love your blog concept and that it looks simply “clean”.
June 5th, 2008
Ha ha, in our house, “neon blue” is proudly referred to as “Racecar Blue”, and it graces our front hallway! What you get when you move into your new husband’s painted-by-HIM home….
June 5th, 2008
Marelisa is here! (Or did I know that already?)
I adore Marelisa.
Realizing that things DO NOT define you, and that you do not NEED things, is wonderful. I am gradually getting there too.
June 5th, 2008
Hi Sara,
Good stuff. I love living a more simple life. Not that I’ve ever had a great deal of stuff, but I did have a great deal of useless stuff. I can now fit everything I own (besides large furniture and collectibles that stay in my parent’s garage) into 1.5 car loads. I find that the essentials like clothing are what takes up most space.
I’ve got about 20 or 30 books I still need to sell/donate. I’m working on it too.
June 6th, 2008
Hi Sara,
Books are hard for me to get rid of too. I feel like I’m getting rid of knowledge (or something). I’m having a garage sale in a month or two, so maybe I’ll work up to going through them and weeding out a few.
June 6th, 2008
LMAO - I have never seen anybody interview themselves before. What a brilliantly simple idea. The egomaniac in me may need to be restrained.
I love the bit about things not defining us, that’s absolutely bang on the money.
June 6th, 2008
I try to only buy things that I know that I will want five years from now, besides food of course. If I like a pair of jeans they better last, iPod (same thing - well hopefully it lasts that long. I’m on year 2 right now), and that goes for friends too.
When we live a simple life, we don’t need certain things to make us happy. Well maybe a smile and a hug from a family member and we’re good to go for a few days.
June 7th, 2008
Great post!
I think we all have certain things that we like to hang on to and those things do define us in a sense, but what’s important, I think, is that they don’t rule us. If we lose them the world won’t come to an end because there are other things that mean a whole lot more.
Simplicity definitely gives more freedom to the individual.
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