7 Ways to Attack Your Monday Morning Stress

Mondays are hard. Mondays suck. Mondays: a terrible way to spend 1/7 of your life. And frankly, I’m sick of them. Since I can’t change the calendar, I’m changing the way I approach Mondays. If you’re ready to toss the stress, consider the following ideas for beating the Monday morning blues.
Write Down One Goal and Accomplish It
Decide on the most important thing you need to get done. You may have tons of things you need to get done, but pick the biggest challenge. Then knock it out. Even if it sucks up all your creative and mental energy for the rest of the day, you’ve made excellent use of your time and can take it a bit easy. For more in-depth advice on this approach, check out Marc & Angel’s “I Will Do One Thing Today” to-do list.
Skip Email for an Hour or Two
A very select few folks have job duties that are truly urgent. You guys are off the hook. For the rest of us, I highly recommend avoiding email first thing Monday morning. Your energy is better served attacking high-priority work instead of playing tag or deleting junk from your inbox. After you’ve put in some good hours and need a break, that’s the perfect time to check email. You’ll avoid adding to your to-do list before you even get started and getting sidetracked right off the bat.
Eat Breakfast. And Lunch. And Dinner.
Your brain doesn’t fire on all cylinders until it’s been fed. So feed it. If you don’t have time to eat, there’s a good chance you’re making excuses. It only takes about 10 minutes to enjoy a bowl of cereal and another two minutes to toss a can of soup into your bag on the way out. There’s no need stress your body and risk intense irritability to save 12 minutes.
Find an Excuse to Laugh
Laughing, even if you’re faking it, can reduce your stress levels. So whatever your sense of humor is, find a reason to laugh. Watch people eating concrete on YouTube or check out kids’ knock-knock jokes (my personal poison). This tip is easy to write off, but it can make a sincere difference in your stress levels, so give it a try.
Create a Two-Column To-Do List for the Week
On one side, list the items that you truly have to get done this week. No cheating: only list items that have a real deadline. (If you work on self-enforced deadlines, use your best judgement.) On the other side, you can list things you’d like to get done. You can use the first column to pull your priority tasks from and fill in the rest of your time with items you choose from the second column. This simplified to-do list restores a bit of choice and freedom to your work week, but ensures that the vital stuff still gets taken care of.
Take a Break
This is about having an abundance mentality. If you run constantly, you may get a lot done, but you’ll also feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day. If you let yourself take break, whether it’s 10 minutes or 30, you don’t lose a meaningful amount of time, but you do start to feel like there’s plenty of time. That feeling can ease your stress considerably, letting you focus on your work instead of just worrying about getting it all done.
Here’s one thing not to do:
Don’t Reward Yourself for Getting Through the Day
Rewarding yourself is great, but you can set up a negative pattern when you reward yourself for getting through each Monday. That reward cements the idea that you did something challenging and difficult. In other words, it reinforces the idea that Mondays suck. If you treat Monday like any other day, full of possibility and full of challenge, you can stop building it into a Big Huge Crappy Deal.
How do you kill the Monday blues? If you’ve got any cool tips or insights, please dive into the comments and share!






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March 30th, 2009
I like the two column to-do list. I’m going to try that.
Deborah Johnsons last blog post..Layoffs
March 30th, 2009
I don’t have Monday Morning Stress as much as I have Monday Morning Blah. I don’t really feel like getting back into the swing of my schedule. It’s magnified on a rainy day like today too.
It helps me just to get moving and start getting things done. Once I start being productive it usually can pull me out of it.
Nicki at Domestic Centss last blog post..Good Reads: Sidewalk Chalk
March 30th, 2009
I like the idea of the two column list. I currently use a to-do list and prioritise the items in my head, I think I will have to give this one a go. It will make things much easier to follow for me.
Garry – thisimprovedlifes last blog post..Earth Hour
March 30th, 2009
I second the suggestion not to check email first thing in the morning. In fact, don’t just do this on Monday, but everyday wait until at least 11:00 a.m. to check email. First, get other stuff done and get it out of the way. If it is really urgent they will call you!
Taylor at Household Management 101s last blog post..Mar 30, Household Inventory: Why Your Family Should Create One
March 30th, 2009
For me, the best way to beat the Monday blues is to start my day with a nice walk. I grab my Ipod and just walk for about an hour. Walking and listening to happy music give me the energy to start my day.
And as for breakfast, I used to not eat it and just grab coffee from Starbucks. I stopped doing that and now have an actual breakfast. I have to admit, that small change has done wonders. So I would say happy music, walking and breakfast!
Nadia-Happy Lotuss last blog post..What’s Your Theme Song?
March 30th, 2009
I killed them by becoming a housebound invalid but I wouldn’t recommend it for everyone…
Humor’s definitely important.
March 30th, 2009
Ooh, walking—that sounds like a great idea! It’s not something I do in the morning, but I can imagine the energy boost that would offer. Plus, it’s just time to spend with yourself, before you have to worry about anybody else.
And Paul, you certainly cracked me up…
March 30th, 2009
I find starting the day with meditation helps me the most.
Roger – A Content Lifes last blog post..A Tale of Two Homes
March 30th, 2009
I find that starting Monday by doing something unrelated to work – exercise, practice my music, write in my journal, breakfast with a friend, etc – is a great way to remember to take care of myself.
March 30th, 2009
I fully agree with skipping email and getting something done first. That sense of accomplishment feels great…but it’s good for everyday, not just Mondays.
I get a head start on Monday morning blues with Sunday evening blues – the anticipation of Monday. If Monday starts off blue, I take a walk through the dog park. Nothing makes me laugh so quickly as goofy dogs in all their happiness.
Laurie | Express Yourself to Successs last blog post..Saturday Short Film: Validation
March 30th, 2009
I was having a particularly unpleasant Monday until I read this post. I really like the idea of not rewarding yourself for making it through the day. You’re completely right — by doing that, you reinforce the idea that Mondays are terrible.
Positively Presents last blog post..a list of sites that inspire
March 30th, 2009
Do you like your work? Cause it sounds like you don’t.
Or maybe you just love your weekends and NOT working.
This post reminds me of college when so many folks would moan and groan about Mondays (made worse by them being exhausted from the weekend). the exception: Those of us who actually enjoyed what we were studying and the majority of our classes.
Is Monday a reminder that you no longer “own” your time? That you’re a “wage slave”? What makes it, more than the other days of the week, so stressful?
That you have to put aside what you want to do to do what someone else wants?
The more we “segregate” our thinking, the more stressful we make it.
You have good suggestions, but they don’t address the underlying issue: You really don’t want to do what you’re doing on Mondays…and the rest of the week.
Until you can find genuine joy in the DOING, whatever it is, you won’t get over the Monday Blues.
One suggestion, again depending on what you do: Focus on how it is helping improve someone else’s life or how someone else (not your boss, etc.) will benefit.
Find a human connection to your work.
It’s something we writers often have to do because the people who get “between” us and who we write for can often make our lives miserable. Every day of the week, not just monday!
March 30th, 2009
I do something similar to writing down one goal, I list 3 MIT’s (most important tasks) and complete 2 before I allow myself to open Outlook or Firefox. I figure any day that I can complete 2 of my 3 most important tasks is a good day.
RSHolmans last blog post..Start Your Start-up With a Strong Accounting Package
March 30th, 2009
This is a very well written article. The only part that seemed odd the the part of setting and accomplishing one goal. What do you then do?
gwens last blog post..Free Phone Service From Google
March 30th, 2009
I make sure only to bring really upbeat music to work on Mondays. That does the trick most of the time.
Christophers last blog post..The Sublime Goodness Mixtape
March 30th, 2009
Hi Sara,
For me it’s all about psyching myself up. I try and get my act together the best I can on Sunday night. By doing that when I wake up on Monday and it’s back at ‘er for another week most things are in place and it’s not such a battle. It may sound a bit lame but sometimes I get my clothes out ready for the morning, set up the coffee pot, and write out my todo list. That way 5:30am on Monday doesn’t seem quite so crappy I can hit the ground running and now I kind of look forward to it
Sherri (Serene Journey)s last blog post..Get Rich, Stay Rich – Emotional Bank Accounts
March 30th, 2009
Gwen, after the one major task is done, I’m free to attack any other items. I hope it didn’t sound like I spent the rest of my day sitting around like a stump!
Mletta, you bring up great questions. They’re tough questions, and I don’t particularly like my answers to all of them, but they’re great.
I enjoy my work, but I’d rather be hanging out with my husband or reading a good book, hands down. This definitely deserves some thought. Anybody else?
March 31st, 2009
Am linking to this on my blog, Sara!
Fabulously Broke in the City
“Just a girl trying to find a balance between being a Shopaholic and a Saver.“
March 31st, 2009
Hi Sara,
I used to be the kind of person that absolutely hated Mondays. I would start to complain Sunday afternoon until I left for work on Monday morning. My husband initially would find it funny and then became annoyed. I would then become annoyed that he was annoyed.
I then realized that I hated my job. The work was fine. I just hated how it made me feel. I finally had to switch jobs and am now at a job that allows me to have the kind of life that I want to have. My current job is not my passion but it allows me to focus on my passion and I don’t get upset at having to go to work on Monday. Of course, this has made Sunday with my man a lot more pleasurable too!
Nadia-Happy Lotuss last blog post..Tell Me The Truth
March 31st, 2009
I have more of a Sunday night dread than a Monday morning problem. I’ve found if I spend 30 minutes going through my emails on Sunday night it makes me feel better. Then I know that there are no fire drills for Monday or I know about them earlier and it gives me a night to sleep on it. Seems counterintuitive but it has been working for me.
March 31st, 2009
Such good ideas. I get everything ready on Sunday night so I’m all prepared and ready come Monday morning.
Sagans last blog post..Interpretations of Marketing Strategies: Hidden Information
March 31st, 2009
Monday is one day closer to the weekend! Simply changing the way you think about things can have a substantial impact on your outlook!
March 31st, 2009
I disagree on not celebrating Mondays. We’ve been so stuck in not liking Mondays it’s a way to get out of that rut and on with the week. That’s why I feature Magic Mondays on my blog.
Tess The Bold Lifes last blog post..10 Rules for a Bold & Daring Life
March 31st, 2009
I bookmark my favorite funny blogs at work and come to work at least 10 minutes early. On Mondays, I spend the first 15 minutes or so just checking the updated ones and having a good laugh before I talk to anyone, get on the phone or even check email/voicemail.
April 2nd, 2009
On Mondays, my gym opens early, so I get to START my day with working out! Yay!
April 4th, 2009
A couple of months ago, we implemented Omlette Day on Mondays. It does help a bit in getting the week going. Now if I could just get someone to make MY omlette!
April 29th, 2009
I have to admit, I’m one of those who has a rough Monday every week. By the time noon hits it already feels like at least Weds, and sometimes Fri.
It doesn’t help that every Mon starts off with unexpected crises.
The writing is on the wall about what needs to be done…working on it…
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