Fail Early, Fail Often: Living by the Gamer’s Mantra
The gamer’s mantra is, “Fail early, fail often,” and it’s a philosophy with implications that extend way beyond World of Warcraft. Gaming experts are noticing that young adults who have grown up on gaming are showing some fail early, fail often tendencies in other areas as well: discovering and learning new technologies, exploring social boundaries, and generally going about life’s activities. It’s a strategy worth considering.

Video gaming is designed to be about trial and error. Players don’t approach a new level knowing exactly what needs to be accomplished and how to do it. Most free-form games require the player to explore unknown spaces, unlock hidden objects by stumbling on them, and die shockingly on occasion. Of course, the balance to this is that most games created in this format are designed so that you can pick up relatively close to where you left off before you were incinerated/eaten/whacked. So instead of trying to play a new game perfectly, gamers are trained to advance quickly and pick up necessary skills by failing early and failing often. In fact, if you’re not failing, you’re probably not playing as the game was intended.
Failing early and often provides the reward of steady, continued progress with few lasting consequences. Huh. Imagine that. Meanwhile, blind luck may get you ahead momentarily, but without the skills and knowledge you need to move on to greater challenges.
Failing Upward
Of course, there’s more to fail early, fail often than just running at a level boss wildly and pushing every button at once. One of the first tactics gamers use is figuring out their strengths. This means trying out different combinations of moves and observing the results. Knowing what skills work in each situation is a primary goal.
Next, gamers will explore their surroundings in a measured, meaningful way. In other words, after finding your strengths, you need to learn your limitations. Where can you go? Where do you need to do something extra to gain access? What pathways look open and which are closed?

Once you’ve know your strengths and limitations, there’s just one thing left to do: take action. Try something. Anything. Did it work? If so, remember what you did and move on. If not, try something else. Gamers don’t (generally) get embarrassed when they try something that doesn’t work. They just regroup, pick a new tactic or strategy and try again. It’s all part of playing the game. They haven’t lost a thing, they’ve simply added a new piece of knowledge to their arsenal.
That’s really what fail early, fail often comes down to: each “failure” adds to your expertise while subtracting nothing. Not all things in life can be treated like a video game, but if you’re stuck in neutral—or worse, in analysis paralysis–reconsider your definition of failure, and consider trying it.
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December 5th, 2008
Well, failing at a video game does have little lasting consequences. There’s no real loss to pushing the start button again. Albeit, failing often within the real world events of investing, careers, and health can have measurable (and lasting) consequences. Not learning from failure, is well, a failure onto itself.
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December 5th, 2008
I really like your take on this. I think it might have an interesting way of effecting a lot of people- any kind of activity can start to alter your mindset with these types of things.
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December 5th, 2008
Hey Sarah,
Interesting tack. It kind of makes me think of this post. It looks at the “paralysis by analysis” syndrome that so many of us have.
Cheers,
Adam
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December 5th, 2008
Sounds like the exact opposite of the type of paralyzing perfectionism that makes you prefer inaction to action for fear of failure.
Brilliant.
Vered – MomGrinds last blog post..Are Blogs And eBooks Inferior To Printed Books?
December 5th, 2008
I’ve heard of failing early and failing often before, but I had never thought of the fact that people who play a lot of video games are transferring the skill of failing forward to other areas in their life. Very interesting.
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December 5th, 2008
I agree with Squawkfox. In games, you can take all sorts of huge, insane risks because, if you fail, you simply start over.
For someone like my wife, the retired paramedic/cop/firefighter, even one failure is not acceptable. Failing often is a quick way to legal and moral hell.
December 6th, 2008
Fail updward is a great way to put it!
On the job, we use the expression “fail fast” which basically means, scrimmage against your results, test your limits and see what you learn. You might be barking up the wrong tree, so failing fast is a way to use what you learn to course correct.
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December 6th, 2008
Yes! Live is about embracing failure and learning from mistakes. We are human, we are not perfect, and we can enjoy the moment of exploration if we allow ourselves to live in the moment.
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December 6th, 2008
Wow – Super post, this!
I am not afraid to fail but like Vered said, I sometimes get stuck with wanting perfection – and that dilutes me in a lot of ways.
I love the x-box, I love bidding on e-bay …yes, I should apply that energy to life.
Awesome post Sara!!
December 7th, 2008
Hi Sara,
This is probably one of the most important things for any person to learn at a young age. I mean, babies start out that way. They aren’t afraid to fail in their quest to talk and stand upright and walk.
We unlearn this as we grow up because of social conditioning. And social conditioning is what its going to take to help people reclaim their comfort with failure.
Cheers,
Jeremy
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December 7th, 2008
This was very thoughtful! It proves there is nothing comparable to be living in reality and gaining skills from real experiments not from virtual things as mentioned. I think this issue is worth to mention and need much research.
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December 7th, 2008
Yeah, I can see that there are times in life when gleefully failing isn’t a real option. Jrandom42, I’m really glad your wife doesn’t take this approach! So there are definitely limitations, but for most creative endeavors, I’d wager that “fail early, fail often” is a less intimidating approach.
I had to remind myself of this principle today as I made a batch of terrible cookies. I wanted to be angry and furious, but decided that I’d just found one less cookie recipe to use. Big deal. I have to say, it felt good.
December 8th, 2008
I see this a lot with my own children. They are not afraid to fail or experiment (not on illicit drugs, thank goodness). What I try to do is to always remind them of the lasting consequences of their actions so that they are more careful when they go about trying to find themselves.
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December 11th, 2008
I recently wrote about the Key to Success is Making Mistakes. I’m glad more people are learning this lesson.
http://justplainjoy.blogspot.com/2008/11/key-to-success-is-making-mistakes_10.html
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January 1st, 2009
Failures are the often “overlooked” key to success in everyday life. Imagine the architects who designed and developed the games, I wonder how many times they failed the build of the app (C#) before they got it right?
For gamers, where would the fun be without consistent failure to force yourself to level up?
Point is when you fail, not to give up…
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January 6th, 2009
Ahad, there is no key to success in life. It’s just a case of trial and error. If failure was the “key” we would be celebrating Uwe Boll, wouldn’t we? Because he fails. The problem is that nowadays people are taught to be afraid of failure. This, in turn, increases the amount of failures.
Relating back to Uwe Boll, this is his one endearing factor. He’s not afraid of failure. However, he’s also a useless director who can’t learn from his mistakes.
We need a combinaton of guts, common sense and dumb luck to survive in the world. Most of it is, in fact, luck, but fear of failure is most certainly a setback.
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