The Guerrilla Tactics You Need to Fight for the Right to Simplicity
If you’re craving more simple ideas, please feel free to check out two guest posts I have out today. Simple Mom is featured 30 Simple Ways to Get Your Child Ready to Read while My Friend Amy is sharing The Power of Story: Sara from On Simplicity on The Dot. Both are literacy related, so if you appreciated yesterday’s post on the power of libraries to fight poverty, you might enjoy these as well. Thanks!
Rights and privileges are becoming very politicized terms, as entitlement programs and the “I deserve it” mentality are being questioned. And while some things shouldn’t be classified as “rights,” such as single-family houses or automobiles, there are still certain things that should be considered as such. Not surprisingly, I consider simplicity to be a right, but it’s one that you’ll have to fight for.

Every day, the world is hoping to make your life more complex. Marketers hope you’ll sign for a new program or product, newsmakers angle to be considered relevant to you, media channels claim their essentialness, and all around you, folks are looking for a way to get in front of your eyeballs. (Obvious yet relevant disclosure: I’m one of them. Sign up for my RSS feed and I’ll be happy to be in front your eyes every day.)
Living a simple life is no longer the default option, which can be a problem for some of us. Instead of opting in to complications both wonderful and terrible, you now have to opt out. What do I mean? The simple pleasures have become harder to find, while the complicated ones are now the default, the standard option. You have to work hard to escape advertisements, bleeding edge technology, and pre-meeting meetings. It’s all still in your control, but it’s not as easy to balance as it once was.
Instead, you’ve got to fight for your right to simplify. Again, that word: right. Is it going overboard to refer to simplicity as a right? I’d say not. It should be within your rights to choose the lifestyle you desire (Lord of the Flies scenarios aside), and that includes living quietly and peacefully. So how can you fight for that right—without making your life into a complex mess in the meantime? You might consider trying one or two of these guerrilla tactics as a start:
Use a Smear Campaign to Undermine Traditional Media

I don’t mean to be flippant in serious times, but if you take every thing see seriously, you’re going to want jump off a building. When pundits are panicking, it’s okay to snicker. One of the best, best, best parts about living simply is that you can ride out the storms that capsize so many others. Celebrate that freedom in every way possible. (Well, don’t go “Nyah, nyah” to your neighbor who’s in trouble, but outside that…)
Eschew Traditional Forms of Leadership
Do all heroes wear fatigues? Do all leaders wear suits and ties? Choose your icons and role models based on your values instead of external cues. By tossing out the standard signifiers of leadership and success, you free yourself to stop chasing dreams you don’t care about. You can stop worrying about the sweet new car next door. Instead, you can stay focused on what matters to you, in the manner that fits your life.
Build Relationships with the Civil Population
Guerrilla warfare is about hearts and minds. When you’ve got a loyal network of solid relationships, you have less need to rely on outside agencies for support and self-esteem reinforcements. Get out in the civilian population and make connections. You might find that the more people you’ve got rallying around you, the less you need the traditional trappings of success. In other words, friends are the best weapon against the vaccuum of loneliness and boredom that can cause us to reach out for stuff instead of connections.
Employ Surprise Attacks
So everyone expects you to dress in a certain simple way, listen to a certain kind of music, and have a certain set of interests? Surprise them by doing exactly what suits you, regardless of what “simplicity” is supposed to look like! Keep ‘em on their toes by wearing your favorite heels to the farmers’ market, or by rocking out to luxury-laden R&B as you enjoy Get Rid of Crap Week. Keep opponents from boxing you in by sticking to your guns (and your unique personality) and watch the battle become fun and fierce!
Cut off Enemy Resources
Sick of getting propaganda in the mail? Use GreenDimes’ service to slash your name off of junk mailing lists. Tired of telephonic communication disruptions during dinnertime? Get yourself on the Do Not Call list. If you’re trying to enjoy a simple lifestyle, don’t roll out of the red carpet to marketing that’s trying to convince you you’re not satisfied.
Use Local Terrain to Your Advantage
Guerrilla fighters know how to use the land to advance their goals, and that means working with what they’ve got. You can do the same thing. Tired of being told that high fructose corn syrup is good for you? Head to your local arms supplier, err, farmers’ market and stock up on fresh, healthy goods. Embrace local businesses and infiltrate local charitable subcultures. By building a base within your community, you’re laying the groundwork of a life that’s more detached from outside influences.This has all been a bit facetious, but I hope that you’ve found a new way to look simplicity. If it’s something you value, it’s worth fighting for.
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October 16th, 2008
This reminds me of Steven Coveys concept of working on your sphere of influence (the one you can affect) and not worrying about your sphere of concern (the one you can’t do much about). It’s been a while since I read the book, but I think that is the gist of it. The more you concentrate on the things you can change, the bigger your circle of influence grows and the more terrain it covers in your circle of concern!
It was touched on only very briefly in the post, but I think one of the most pervasive barriers to keeping it simple is the idea of “keeping up with the Joneses.” It’s so easy to get sucked into wanting one of those nice cars parked in the neighbor’s driveway or have your kitchen remodeled like the family across the road…
We decided a couple years ago to live the simple lifestyle so that we could drop to one income. This allowed one of us to always be home with our daughter, rather than resort to daycare. Since then, it has been a constant process of deciding if that next purchase is something we need, something we don’t need but is a reasonable addition to our lifestyle, or something that we are just coveting but really don’t need.
Thanks for the post. Good food for thought…
Cheers,
Adam
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October 16th, 2008
I love this article! Wow! We absolutely have to fight to simplify our lives. It seems that attacks come from every direction to rob us of the simple joys of life. It is easy to become consumed with all the noise in our society that pressures us into living in ways that are not profitable to our happiness.
A great example is the financial crisis going on right now. Companies and individuals got themselves in this mess due to a sense of entitlement and greed. People lost the battle to keep their finances simple, debt-free, and affordable. This has cost us a lot more than just some money. It steals our leisure and happiness!
Keep up the great writing!
October 16th, 2008
I love this post. I’ve been aiming for a simplified life and it seems that it is a constant struggle. Accumulating stuff is so easy but the burdens that accompany them are sooo not worth it in my book.
I’m so much happier when I leave the TV off, eat wholesome foods, care less about other people’s perceptions, and base my joy in people rather than things. I truly do feel free.
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October 16th, 2008
My epiphany from today’s post – the Do Not Call list sign up. I signed up for the list a few years ago when it became available and I got rid of those nuisance calls. However I signed up with a new telephone carrier using VOIP about a year ago and they transferred my old phone number over so I still receive calls on my old number but they also assigned me a new phone number. The nuisance calls started up again a couple of months ago. I started off by blacklisting certain numbers that showed up on my caller id but the list was growing fast. It was just a few days ago that I noticed the nuisance calls that showed up in my log of received calls were made to my new number. I read your mention of the Do Not Call list and then the light went on and I realized I hadn’t signed up with the new number. I just signed up with the new number so thanks for helping connect the dots!
October 16th, 2008
At first fighting for simplicity seems counterintuitive. We should just be able to live how we want.
But, we live in an age where you may be considered a bit odd if your cell phone does not take pictures, connect to the internet, and have a full music and video library. If you want to disconnect and be out of reach once in a while, then you are downright weird. Pay cash instead of using plastic. How quaint.
The current financial mess is a good example of how getting away from simplicity can cause problems. I send my mortgage payment to one company. Who knows how many different companies they sold pieces of it to. Then those companies sell pieces to other companies. If I would default(which I won’t), then it ripples all the way through the system instead of just one company.
I like most of your suggestions. Like going to local stores where they call me by name instead of asking if I have a rewards card. Will check out Green Dimes, and am already on the states do not call list. However, I draw the line at wearing high heels.
October 16th, 2008
Wow, loved this article Sara. One which has worked for me – Believing and telling myself, I am a simple person, I don’t need the stuff they are selling. Works like a charm. I loved your suggestion of building a base within your community. Most of times, it’s because we want to fit in some kind of community we buy into the complexity sold.
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October 16th, 2008
Wow – thanks for the shout out on GreenDimes – I do appreciate the mention. If you or any of your readers have any questions about the service, please let me know.
You might want to check out our new blog Tonic News (http://news.tonic.com/) about all things good and green!
Dans last blog post..Blog Action Day: Microfinance & Poverty
October 16th, 2008
I’m inspired by your whole theme. I always know that when I read one of your posts there will be more than enough options for actionable items, all leading hopefully to that simpler life. My favorite today is – “Eschew Traditional Forms of Leadership.”
To hell with them – be yourself!
Tom Volkar / Delightful Works last blog post..Finding Your Path to a Successful Business Startup
October 16th, 2008
Loved your guest posts Sarah! Be sure to tell me when you get that children’s book of yours out
You know, I have to disagree here a little bit … the tactics you have described here are all very well, but I prefer a Gandhian approach I guess. Yes, simplicity is our right but a fight is hardly necessary. I embrace simplicity and wear it proudly and all of a sudden it becomes me …
I am not entirely sure if I am actually disagreeing here but it is just another perspective
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October 16th, 2008
Employing Surprise Attacks…I’m so predictable!
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October 16th, 2008
That was a cute metaphor. It doesn’t apply to my husband and me…we’ve always lived beneath our means and don’t much care what the Jones’ are buying or doing. We live in a 1000-square-foot apartment which naturally limits our buying…before we bring something in we have to figure what we’ll have to recycle. It’s a carefree way to live.
October 16th, 2008
Sara, this is a fantastic post! Wow! I like the comparisons you made. I’m a pretty simple person when it comes to “keepin up with the Jone’s”. I keep forgetting to put myself on that Do Not Call List; maybe I’m not getting enough calls to bug me after all.
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October 16th, 2008
Adam: Thanks for your thoughts! What you said really clicked with me: part of living (and staying) simple is having something you want more than what every commercial (or every neighbor) is showing you. For you, having a parent at home trumps every doodad. We’ve all got to find our own reasons.
Jeff: Thanks! “Noise”—I think that’s an excellent way to put it. We’re surrounded by noise, and we’ve got to find our own ways to get some earplugs.
Michelle: Isn’t it funny how easy and joyful it is to let things go? I get the burdens that go along with stuff, and they’re so not worth it 90 percent of the time!
Mark: I’m so glad that you were able to take a specific action after reading this! The Do Not Call list doesn’t solve every problem, but there’s no reason not to stem the tide, right?
David: I’ll give you a pass on the high heels.
It took me forever to get a cell phone, and boy did I get some weird looks when I admitted that!
Avani: You’ve got such wonderful inner strength! I like the idea of building communities around your interests instead of, as you brought up, trying to buy into one.
Dan: You’re so welcome! Thanks for offering service that makes life a little less complicated.
Tom: Thanks so much! There’s nothing more simple than being yourself…
Maya: I absolutely think we can have different perspectives while sharing the same value of simplicity. Thanks for adding in an alternate way to approach the issue; that’s what I love to read in the comments!
Chris: Doesn’t it sound fun to be a sneaky spy just once in a while?
Jean: I like that you consider going against the grain as completely natural to you. I’d take “carefree” over “even with the Joneses” any day.
Davina: Thanks so much! And I’m glad to hear that you’re not getting too many unsolicited calls. Ours have dropped in the last few months, which has made our evenings more relaxed.
October 17th, 2008
This is an amazing post. I am enjoying reading your blogs. Keep them coming.
I have DND enabled my mobile phone and simply do not even open junk mail that comes via the post. Google does a great job of filtering spam in my email and I am quite comfortable on that score.
I am a member of a a few clubs and have instructed them not to sell or make available my name and other details for direct marketeers.
Despite all these precautions, some DM calls do come through and I usually do one of two things. Introduce myself as a famous film actor and ask the caller if she wanted to speak to me about doing a film with me or the other one I say, Press one for Technical Assistance, or Two for operator and so on. One of these usually works.
October 17th, 2008
“Harry Papasoteriou Says: “Leading strategic theorists such as Clausewitz and Liddell Hart argued, that guerrilla campaigns were unlikely to succeed without the cooperation of a friendly state and its regular army. The historical record substantially confirms their theoretical analyses.”
Been there, done that. Got the campaign ribbons, the jungle rot and the memories.
October 19th, 2008
Wonderful post Sara.
So far I’ve found the move to a more simple life, hard! Mainly because I was the cause of making every thing so complicated in the first place and un complicating everything takes time.
I’m going to follow your Guerrilla Tactics, to get the life I want, thank you
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October 20th, 2008
Rummuser: Ha! I love your approach to derailing marketing calls. It’s certainly better than cussing the poor folks out!
jrandom42: So not the right approach for you, right? This one may be much more helpful or inspiring to folks who haven’t lived it, to where guerrilla fighting is all theory.
Laura:
Admitting that you’re part of the complexity helps, I imagine. I know I certainly do the same thing. There are things other people could let go and never worry about, but not me.
October 22nd, 2008
I see a common theme when you write. It’s live from the inside out and be yourself. Works for me.
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October 23rd, 2008
J.D.: That really is how I try to approach life and living simply. It doesn’t always work, but it’s worth aiming for.
October 27th, 2008
It might be the right approach, but the whole ‘guerilla warfare’ concept just brings back so many memories of the SE Asian jungle, the smell of napalm (still smells like gasoline to me, not victory), the dropping stomach feeling as the helicopter comes in for an assault landing, the feeling of fighting alone in the elephant grass, and the desperation of running for the pickup zone being chased by an angry battalion of NVA regulars.
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