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	<title>Comments on: Mistakes and Disappointments Are a Call to Arms for the Soul</title>
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	<description>Have less, enjoy more.</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-1026</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 20:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike,

Thank &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt;! I had some of the same concerns with Tina's post. I think that it's freeing to admit when you don't know something. That doesn't haven't to equate to giving up or shutting down. 

I like that you've injected "fun" into the conversation. Mistakes can definitely be fun--even when they're painful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike,</p>
<p>Thank <i>you</i>! I had some of the same concerns with Tina&#8217;s post. I think that it&#8217;s freeing to admit when you don&#8217;t know something. That doesn&#8217;t haven&#8217;t to equate to giving up or shutting down. </p>
<p>I like that you&#8217;ve injected &#8220;fun&#8221; into the conversation. Mistakes can definitely be fun&#8211;even when they&#8217;re painful.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Sowden</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-1013</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Sowden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 13:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the plug, Sara! And sorry I haven't thanked you before. My mistake. ;)

Yes, I'm a firm believer that mistakes are wise-making. And very charismatic, too: someone who admits they got the wrong end of the stick and says "I'm sorry, I got it wrong, now I'll try to get it right" is much more engaging than someone who pretends to have the answer for everything. (This is why I party disagreed with &lt;a href="http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/the-power-of-language/" rel="nofollow"&gt;this recent post&lt;/a&gt; over at &lt;i&gt;Think Simple Now&lt;/i&gt;. We shouldn't be afraid of clearly admitting our shortcomings - right before we tackle them). 

We're all klutzes in our own ways. That's how we grow and have fun.

"I've learned so much from my mistakes that I'm thinking of making some more."  -Anon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the plug, Sara! And sorry I haven&#8217;t thanked you before. My mistake. <img src='http://www.onsimplicity.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Yes, I&#8217;m a firm believer that mistakes are wise-making. And very charismatic, too: someone who admits they got the wrong end of the stick and says &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, I got it wrong, now I&#8217;ll try to get it right&#8221; is much more engaging than someone who pretends to have the answer for everything. (This is why I party disagreed with <a href="http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/the-power-of-language/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/comment/http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/the-power-of-language/');" rel="nofollow">this recent post</a> over at <i>Think Simple Now</i>. We shouldn&#8217;t be afraid of clearly admitting our shortcomings - right before we tackle them). </p>
<p>We&#8217;re all klutzes in our own ways. That&#8217;s how we grow and have fun.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve learned so much from my mistakes that I&#8217;m thinking of making some more.&#8221;  -Anon.</p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-564</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:25:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Natural: Exactly.

@Sara: Freakin' brilliant. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Natural: Exactly.</p>
<p>@Sara: Freakin&#8217; brilliant. <img src='http://www.onsimplicity.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-561</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quoting Miles Davis here: "There are no mistakes."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quoting Miles Davis here: &#8220;There are no mistakes.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Weekend Roundup &#124; Remodeling This Life</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-537</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekend Roundup &#124; Remodeling This Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 10:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-489</link>
		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 22:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hopefully one can recover from their mistake or disappointment.  i guess those which that don't kill you can make you stronger.  we should be learning everyday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hopefully one can recover from their mistake or disappointment.  i guess those which that don&#8217;t kill you can make you stronger.  we should be learning everyday.</p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/07/mistakes-and-disappointments-are-a-call-to-arms-for-the-soul/#comment-486</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:35:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barbara,

Thanks for mentioning that small mistakes can be overlooked. While a few may be meaningful here and there, I think it's generally a good idea to let small things go. 

Like you, I'm focused more on the crushing defeats that make us want to curl up and never come out. Well, focused on trying  to learn from and not repeat them, that is. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara,</p>
<p>Thanks for mentioning that small mistakes can be overlooked. While a few may be meaningful here and there, I think it&#8217;s generally a good idea to let small things go. </p>
<p>Like you, I&#8217;m focused more on the crushing defeats that make us want to curl up and never come out. Well, focused on trying  to learn from and not repeat them, that is. <img src='http://www.onsimplicity.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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