Turn Your Dream Telecommuting Job into a Nightmare in Five Easy Steps
Telecommuting sounds like a dream come true. Work from home, spend all day in your pajamas snarfing down Chee-tos, and never have to deal with the boss in person. And it can be all those things, but it can also be a bit of a nightmare if you do everything wrong. Imagine your work life bleeding uncomfortably into your personal life and having to force yourself to focus.
That’s what I found happening to me when I landed a telecommuting position out of college. Instead of having more free time, I found myself with none. Instead of being able to focus without a lot of inter-office distractions, I found myself having an even worse time staying on task. The lowest point was when I realized I spent all my free time thinking about work (and trying to avoid it), and all my work time trying to think of stuff to do in my free time. In short, it just wasn’t working, so I forced myself to make some major changes. So, learn from my mistakes and actually enjoy telecommuting. Here’s what not to do:
Work at random times each day.
Not only does this lead to a chaotic life, it also encourages procrastination. Plus, for insomniacs (like myself back then), procrastination and flexible hours lead to the deadly result of working at 4 A.M. Not very fun. For a better work-life balance, set a regular schedule and stick to it. You’ll be forced to stay on task to get done at the scheduled time each day. Soon, you’ll hate it when you get off schedule and get stuck working late. While it’s okay to take advantage of flexible hours every once in awhile (you can grab lunch with a busy friend or end your day early to get on the road for a long weekend), stick to a schedule on the majority of days.
Don’t create a work station.
Since you’re not in an office, you may as well make yourself comfortable and do your job on the couch. Heck, why not work from bed? Yes, you can do it, but should you? If you enjoy being unprofessional, non-ergonomic, and slightly schizophrenic, by all means do. If you’d prefer to feel on-the-ball, refreshed, and productive, create a place that’s devoted to work and work alone. Keep important files and papers close by, remove any obvious distractions (like TV and the latest Janet Evanovich novel), and invest in ergonomic furniture and computer accessories. Plus, when you’re done, you’ll be able to close the door and leave work at “the office.”
Avoid breaks at all costs.
It can be tempting to blow through the day without breaks and get done faster, but there’s a huge cost. You’ll be fatigued by the end of the day and your performance levels will drop–leading to mistakes and less-than-stellar performances. Plus, it’s the road straight to burnout. Breaks give your brain a rest and lower your stress level. Plus, breaks at home are a great way to get stuff taken care of without cutting into your free time. Call your best friend, jog to the mailbox, marinate the chicken for dinner, or just turn up the music and dance! Breaks can be the best part of your day, so be sure to take them. Set a timer, and be ready to get back to work–fully refreshed–once it’s done.
Pretend your co-workers don’t exist.
Your fellow employees–and especially other telecommuters in your company–are a great resource, so get to know them. Ignoring them doesn’t make them go away, and it doesn’t give you any allies. Not only are coworkers a great source of companionship, they’re the ones you’ll rely on when things get rough or you’re on a tight deadline and need a hand. If you pretend they aren’t important, don’t be surprised when they return the favor.
Embrace distractions.
Hey, no one’s going to complain if you listen to Barry White on work time, so why not blast it? Dr. Phil in the background isn’t reallly distracting you, so why turn it off? You wouldn’t want your blood sugar to drop, so you should probably stop and get a snack every 20 minutes, right? No! There’s a reason these things aren’t acceptable in an office, and they shouldn’t be acceptable in your home office, either. Keep the distractions to a minimum (think quiet classical music and a cup of tea) and keep your productivity levels up.
The Bottom Line: You’re Still on the Job
In short, telecommuting is still a job, so treat it as such. You can still take advantage of the benefits of working from home (like hanging out in your favorite flannels and having a hot cooked lunch each day) without turning your home into a three ring circus. You’ll find that your free time is more enjoyable–and so is your work time!






This post has 12 comments
June 10th, 2008
Excellent post – I expecially enjoyed your voice in this one. I love a little sarcasm with my morning coffee (I really do – i’m not being sarcastic!).
I have always wondered what it would be like to work from home full-time, but I think I’d fall trap to all of the things you list here. Plus, I tend to be a bit of a hermit, without the forced interations at work I would never become appropriately socialized.
June 10th, 2008
So glad you enjoyed it! Yeah, I didn’t get out much during those years… It’s all too easy to just watch Fresh Prince reruns at the end of the day instead of heading out to actually, you know, see a fellow human being. Thank goodness for all the friends who dragged me out!
June 10th, 2008
I agree that distractions that aren’t allowed in the office should not be allowed when you’re working at home. I always tell students (like myself), if you’re doing your work on the computer, turn your messenger OFF!! Sure, you may have the “away” message on. But in your mind, you know it’s there. And you tend to check on it rather frequently anyways regardless of the away message, don’t you? When I do any kind of work, being logged into an online messenger is a big NO NO; I know it will negatively influence my work productivity.
June 10th, 2008
Sara: Having to go into an office provides ready-made boundaries that aren’t there when you work at home, so you have to make sure to create them yourself. You provide a lot of very important boundaries in this post (creating a space, establishing work hours, separating your job from the rest of your life, and so on). That’s why a lot of people fail when they start a home business: they don’t have the discipline to set proper boundaries.
June 10th, 2008
I wish I could get telecommuting a try. I am a retail manager, cannot do any work at home in that field. I probably could not do it anyway, I need people interaction.
June 10th, 2008
Bamboo Forest: Messenger does change everything! I had to be on messenger for working hours, so I started hearing the ding even when I was away from my computer and my pulse would start racing. It took months for that to wear off…
June 11th, 2008
Hi Sara,
We didn’t always have a home office, but when we moved it to the house, I stayed on my same schedule. I get ready for the day as if I’m going to work outside the home. I tend not to take breaks, but am pretty disciplined otherwise.
Now that I’m blogging too, I “treat myself” by allowing blogging time after my work is done.
Some days are tough, distractions can be many. You’ve listed great ideas to stay on task, and have a life too.
June 11th, 2008
Ha ha!!
Loved your angle a lot!
My favorite is “Embrace Distractions”…
I am sitting at home and performing an offline work for the customer, guess what – the RSS reader shows me you got new post. How could I continue working? … LOL!
thanks
June 11th, 2008
Absolutely.
In fact, working from home requires at least double the self-discipline.
You can work up to it by working in coffee shops and libraries – it’s informal, but you’ll be less likely to bunk off, grab a snooze, watch TV etc.
I’m still a bit rubbish – but I’m improving.
June 12th, 2008
On this point:
I read something that said people who work at home are more likely to suffer from lonliness because they forget that they have coworkers and don’t reach out to them for companionship.
I would love to work from home “full-time”.
July 1st, 2008
Thanks for describing my life with such excruciating accuracy
July 1st, 2008
@Tim: My pleasure, my good man. My pleasure.
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